The Ceebi dynamics

If you have been watching Big brother Naija Double Wahala, or following on any social network, there's no way you would know this two. They were one of the pairs that became more than strategic partners if you know what I mean. 

My issue is not them becoming more than strategic partners, it's the toxic nature of their relationship.  Now Cecee seems like a control freak, she wanted Tobi to live by her rules. That includes not talking to any other girl or infact any other house mate, it went on to her insulting him and almost hitting him. Tobi on the other hand resorted to avoiding her and talking her bad sides to any body that cared to listen. Now it seemed like all fun and games until the viewers and housemate really started seeing the lady for who she is. It's sad to me that people find her entertaining or the organizers of the show see it worthy to keep her in the house  to incerase ratings. Toxic is toxic regardless!!! And the sad part is that that's how so many relationships in this world are. People are condoning, people are settling, people are unhappy, but won't back out because they don't want to be lonely. 

Dear all, know this, Toxic is not entertainment.  If you are in a toxic relationship, the best thing you can do for your self is to back out... 

Thinking out Loud

So I've been thinking a lot lately..... Do we call this series Thinking out loud? 😉

Anyway my thought for today is? Is it okay for people to live together before marriage?

My answer is Yes and No. No only because the bible frowns at it. But humanly speaking I'll say a big yes. I'll say you spend three to six months with whoever you want to marry. That's enough time to know whether you'll go the nine yards or not. For instance you'll know if the person snores and if you are able to live with it, you'll know the  persons hygien and many other seemingly inconsequential stuff. That will better prepare you for the "task" ahead. So many things people see as non issues end up destroying marriages. So yes I'm team live with the person. What team are you? 

Ladies get in here

If you find yourself in this situation what will you do?
For me I think I'll go with whoever is making logical sense. Like you can't be talking out of point and expect me to take sides with you.  I'll try to talk to both parties though, but I'll still stick to who is making more sense.

Worse case scenario, I'll call a cab and go my own way.  Lol

What do you guys think? Also guys of the scenario involved your wife and your mum, what will you do?

DJ Cuppy "Rents" out cinema to watch black panther with her boyfriend

Today DJ Cuppy, Femi Otedolas daughter posted a picture of herself and her boyfriend Obi Asika in a cinema in Dubai with a caption stating that they rented the entire cinema to seeBlack Panther. Social media was agog with captions and comments. All saying DJ Cuppy rents cinema to watch black panther with her boyfriend. Truth is it might have been the boy that rented the entire cinema, but because Cuppy is a billionaires daughter, it's automatically assumed that it was her treat. 

Now the boy in question isn't doing badly for himself, but trust our people to jump into conclusion. Obi Asika is Davidos manager and he has worked with many super talented people ranging from Wizkid, Banky W and the likes 

It's my birth month yo!!!

Welcome to my birth month people..... this month is easily my favourite month in a year, not just because it's my birth month, but because I share the month with so many special people. Also the number three symbolises resurrection, that means every dead thing in your life will come alive.

Will post some more this year...... I promise..... again! 😉

Happy Valentine's Day people.....

How did y'all spend your day? 

I didn't do much, was a total couch potato.  The hubby travelled so......

Tell us how you spent your Valentine's, and also tell us the most memorable Valentine's you've haď.....

X

Missed Y'all

Happy New year my beautiful people..... so I got in here after a looooong time and realised I actually missed blogging. I hope to do better this year.... I pray to be passionate about it. I need encouragement from y'al.... Thank you and see you soon.

Peace out